The “Good Student”

The “Good Student”

As an aspiring teacher, I would naturally want to have students in my class that were considered “good” students. I don’t know if anyone would want students in their class who are inherently “bad” by social standards. By “good” I mean to be respectful of others boundaries and opinions. Being a good student has changed throughout history. Common sense dictates that a “good” student is to be punctual, positive, open-minded, and to be exactly what the curriculum wants. A “good” student fits into the mould of the curriculum by fulfilling every part of what the perfect adult should be. Many of these ideas of what a “good” student should be were derived from stereotypes in history that were based on different races. There was a hierarchy of which races were considered to be the best students and would be able to succeed in being educated towards the perfect adult at that time, which was typically the English and white settlers. The difference of culture was not taken into account, and education was a melting pot and the goal was to assimilate everyone.

With this idea of the “good” student, there are predigests that cause certain students to be privileged and others to be burdened. This concept of “good” students being privileged is still seen in classrooms today. In personal experience, if a student fell into the category of a “good” student they were able to get away with behaviours that would have been considered bad or against the rules because they were getting good grades. Any type of bad behaviour was excused because they were doing well in school. Teachers were more lenient on students doing well, because “they were smart” so they are obviously doing everything else right, they can slack off or take a break, while other students had to work harder. In history, many of these students who were privileged were the students who came from the correct background, i.e. white kids. This is still apparent today, and the predigests have only become more numerous because of the expansion of the knowledge of different sexualities and genders. This one adds another dimension to what is considered the “good” student, now they must be white, male, and straight.

With these stereotypes and new dimensions being added to what makes a student a “good” student, there are aspects of life that are made impossible. For example, it is harder to see the good in everyone because if people don’t fit into what is “good” then that means they are bad. These ideas stomp on the potential for the growth if diversity in society because we want everyone to be “good” and fit into the mould of what adults should be. As teachers, I believe we are to open the world up to students, give them more opportunities and show them their potential to be good in whatever standard that want to be in. If, as teachers, we are supposed to sort students into categories of “good” and “bad” there will continue to be the deviation between good and bad people. Some people believe they are bad because they were told they are, so they keep doing bad things to further prove to themselves that the label they received is in fact true.

What is the true goal of the teacher? Are we to sort students into categories like “will go well” and “won’t succeed”, or are we to show students there is good in everyone, not just those who are of the majority?

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Jessica Wiedemann

Jessica is a student at University of Regina. Her passion for helping others and advocacy for the prevention of bullying in schools has lead her to a career in education. She is a dog lover, photographer, and a food lover.

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Reflecting on Social Cognitive Theory and Marshmallows

Reflecting on Social Cognitive Theory and Marshmallows

This week in lecture we talked about the social cognitive theory, marshmallow test and self-regulation.

Part of the social cognitive theory is the concept of Reciprocal Influence. This is the idea that three aspects all influence each other. These aspects are Socal Influences, Self Influence, and Achievement Outcomes. I strongly agree with this idea due to personal experience when I was in high school. I was having issues with other girls at school and I really didn’t feel as though I belonged at school. This lead to my want to stay home from school which had a large negative impact on my grades in my classes, I even failed a class because I wasn’t in class enough to know enough for the exam. The issues I had in the social aspects of going to school and my achievement outcomes were influenced in a negative way. In feeling very low about the social issues I was having my self-efficacy was pretty much non-existent. Self-efficacy plays a big role in how much the reciprocal influences impact a student. The better a student believes they are able to succeed, the higher the chance of positive outcomes.

The marshmallow test was interesting as well as entertaining because as a child I feel I wouldn’t have been able to sit and wait for as long as some of those kids did. I like how the researchers used marshmallows to test the self-regulation of children. The idea of self-regulation is along the same lines as self-control and self-restraint.

Coming from the experiences I had in my younger school years I feel like I was let down by some teachers in a way because they were not concerned by my absence in class.  How can teachers able to take more of these three types of influences like social, self, and achievement influences into account when observing their students and their behaviour in the classroom?

Featured Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash.

Jessica Wiedemann

Jessica is a student at University of Regina. Her passion for helping others and advocacy for the prevention of bullying in schools has lead her to a career in education. She is a dog lover, photographer, and a food lover.

Make sure to comment below and follow her on social media, she loves to reach out and connect with you!